An year ago I had tryst with reality. Those memories were refreshed when I saw Angrez yesterday. Its a movie based in Hyderabad and the differences that prevail between the old city and hi-tech city. In other words it’s about
Old city represented by orthodox Muslim families and the hi-tech city represented by modern and liberal families. I got these pictures from HT. There are many noteworthy features about those pictures. They not only represent different dressing but they also reveal the economic backwardness of Muslims; the boy in the first image has a kite but the girl in the other picture has a doll! Lack of modernity is represented by no background music the first picture. Another striking feature of the first picture is the position of women, notice how they have been pushed to the background whereas the blonde with an umbrella is leading in the second picture; an indication how patriarchal system is prevalent among Muslims. The family in the second picture has a uniformed butler but no such luxury for the family in the first Picture. Notice also the number of children in the first pic as compared to the second one. Thank God they didn’t show more than one woman in the first pic! Another interesting pic can be found here (I have nothing to comment on that
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Well to be frank I have observed this difference in every city I have been; Muslim majority areas are backward as compared to others, they usually have narrow dirty and filthy streets with people in traditional dresses. People there are generally jobless and so small groups of flirts and perverts is a common sight, they flaunt and generally dream about lavish living and how they wanna break free from the orthodoxies. Salman Khan, Shahrukh Khan and Amir Khan are role their role models. They try to follow them in their dressing sense with whatever they have at their disposal but most sadly they cannot visualize the burqa clad women to be their sexy heroines. Their whole lives revolve around a virtual world they have carved out for them and in their language they are Kool! Then there are married men who find it hard to control their fetish desires (read it again if you don’t understand..that fetish word is the key) and often end up making a cricket team! They then marry off their daughters to some sheikh in gulf or anyone with a job abroad. This is what I wrote here
Fathers, old orthodox and often bigots, coerce their daughters to get married to such people and then often end up in ruining the lives of innocents. Not just among Muslims but this practice is common in Punjab and other parts of North India. Mostly these marriages are for money. Fathers marry off their daughters in hope for a brighter future and lavish living, a freedom from abject poverty that most of these families are subjected to. Then there are dalals who direct the whole fictitious marriage, well marriage just for the name sake; a marriage with photo or online marriage or even telephonic! And of course there are greedy Mullahs who can make way for any possibility. The end result, the innocent virgin being raped by her, father like, husband. I can’t even imagine how she feels when she is confronted with an elderly man ready to let loose his sexual lust on her. Well in most cases the man has to be a shameless scoundrel whose morality has been traded for libido. These viagra powered men try to defy age and also malign the sacred ritual of marriage. They shatter the dreams of those innocent and benign young girls, marriages like these will continue to haunt them even if they are rescued.
Fathers like these have no place in modern society. Before hanging Mohammed Afzal the court should hang these morons! The biggest burden this world carries…Old orthodox men!!
Anyway Angrez was about this difference sans my rant against old orthodox men
. The movie is a comedy. Its about how a NRI runs into few old city guys and the subsequent chase and the associated comedy. A must watch if you wanna learn Hyderabadi Urdu. But I cannot reproduce any of it because I so so bad at learning languages; I have spent all my life among Bengalis but still cannot speak a sentence properly and same is the case with Tamil. The movie is about Charminar and its also about Banjara hills.
Before visiting Hyderabad I had this notion that its a metropolitan but when my mother asked me about it I said its just a big Patna
nothing more. There was chaos all around. Traffic was scary and I nearly missed my bus due to it. People had no regard for the traffic light. As far as food is concerned, well that famous hyderabadi biryani was a disappointment and so was the haleem. Few so called ‘city dwellers’ were hostile to the fact that I was encroaching their territory (well in various ways). Anyway I have nothing more to comment on that..I am just too prejudiced against them (perhaps you wanna read this and this and then you will understand why it was a tryst with reality for me).Well in short it wasn’t a pleasant trip for me but I am sure I will like that place on my next visit :D.
Kya bolta tumhe miyaN..maza aayega..lekin hallu hallu
Nice photos and nice pix. Kite Vs Doll. About Haleem and Hyderabadi Biryani, I share your sentiment. It was a big disappointment. It is not that they are hopeless, just our tongue is not used to such cuisines. And Hyderabad is changing fast, earlier it was a Muslim majority city, now it has barely 35% Muslim population, mostly in Old City.