An year ago I had tryst with reality. Those memories were refreshed when I saw Angrez yesterday. Its a movie based in Hyderabad and the differences that prevail between the old city and hi-tech city. In other words it’s about
Old city represented by orthodox Muslim families and the hi-tech city represented by modern and liberal families. I got these pictures from HT. There are many noteworthy features about those pictures. They not only represent different dressing but they also reveal the economic backwardness of Muslims; the boy in the first image has a kite but the girl in the other picture has a doll! Lack of modernity is represented by no background music the first picture. Another striking feature of the first picture is the position of women, notice how they have been pushed to the background whereas the blonde with an umbrella is leading in the second picture; an indication how patriarchal system is prevalent among Muslims. The family in the second picture has a uniformed butler but no such luxury for the family in the first Picture. Notice also the number of children in the first pic as compared to the second one. Thank God they didn’t show more than one woman in the first pic! Another interesting pic can be found here (I have nothing to comment on that
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Well to be frank I have observed this difference in every city I have been; Muslim majority areas are backward as compared to others, they usually have narrow dirty and filthy streets with people in traditional dresses. People there are generally jobless and so small groups of flirts and perverts is a common sight, they flaunt and generally dream about lavish living and how they wanna break free from the orthodoxies. Salman Khan, Shahrukh Khan and Amir Khan are role their role models. They try to follow them in their dressing sense with whatever they have at their disposal but most sadly they cannot visualize the burqa clad women to be their sexy heroines. Their whole lives revolve around a virtual world they have carved out for them and in their language they are Kool! Then there are married men who find it hard to control their fetish desires (read it again if you don’t understand..that fetish word is the key) and often end up making a cricket team! They then marry off their daughters to some sheikh in gulf or anyone with a job abroad. This is what I wrote here
Fathers, old orthodox and often bigots, coerce their daughters to get married to such people and then often end up in ruining the lives of innocents. Not just among Muslims but this practice is common in Punjab and other parts of North India. Mostly these marriages are for money. Fathers marry off their daughters in hope for a brighter future and lavish living, a freedom from abject poverty that most of these families are subjected to. Then there are dalals who direct the whole fictitious marriage, well marriage just for the name sake; a marriage with photo or online marriage or even telephonic! And of course there are greedy Mullahs who can make way for any possibility. The end result, the innocent virgin being raped by her, father like, husband. I can’t even imagine how she feels when she is confronted with an elderly man ready to let loose his sexual lust on her. Well in most cases the man has to be a shameless scoundrel whose morality has been traded for libido. These viagra powered men try to defy age and also malign the sacred ritual of marriage. They shatter the dreams of those innocent and benign young girls, marriages like these will continue to haunt them even if they are rescued.
Fathers like these have no place in modern society. Before hanging Mohammed Afzal the court should hang these morons! The biggest burden this world carries…Old orthodox men!!
Anyway Angrez was about this difference sans my rant against old orthodox men
. The movie is a comedy. Its about how a NRI runs into few old city guys and the subsequent chase and the associated comedy. A must watch if you wanna learn Hyderabadi Urdu. But I cannot reproduce any of it because I so so bad at learning languages; I have spent all my life among Bengalis but still cannot speak a sentence properly and same is the case with Tamil. The movie is about Charminar and its also about Banjara hills.
Before visiting Hyderabad I had this notion that its a metropolitan but when my mother asked me about it I said its just a big Patna
nothing more. There was chaos all around. Traffic was scary and I nearly missed my bus due to it. People had no regard for the traffic light. As far as food is concerned, well that famous hyderabadi biryani was a disappointment and so was the haleem. Few so called ‘city dwellers’ were hostile to the fact that I was encroaching their territory (well in various ways). Anyway I have nothing more to comment on that..I am just too prejudiced against them (perhaps you wanna read this and this and then you will understand why it was a tryst with reality for me).Well in short it wasn’t a pleasant trip for me but I am sure I will like that place on my next visit
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Kya bolta tumhe miyaN..maza aayega..lekin hallu hallu

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Adnan 10.16.06 at 1:44 am
Nice photos and nice pix. Kite Vs Doll. About Haleem and Hyderabadi Biryani, I share your sentiment. It was a big disappointment. It is not that they are hopeless, just our tongue is not used to such cuisines. And Hyderabad is changing fast, earlier it was a Muslim majority city, now it has barely 35% Muslim population, mostly in Old City.
Adnan 10.16.06 at 1:46 am
And, how do you get these small images of ‘share and enjoy’ on your blog. Is it a code that brings them here? And what’s the use of so many of them ?
Sharique 10.16.06 at 3:02 am
Adnan bhai,
Its a wordpress plugin so that people can easily bookmark. Wanna shift to your own domain name? tell me if interested..i can host it for you.
Will remove few of them…i don’t know what to remove and what not to
kuffir 10.22.06 at 11:57 am
adnan,
a correction: hyderabad was always a hindu-majority city..but the dominant cultural idiom was always muslim..as it was in all major towns in telangana. i remember my folks, older male relatives, always preferred to converse in urdu, or more accurately dakhni, than in telugu.. and many of us still do. and even in the villages you’d always find willing dakhni speakers. the hyderabad of nawabs, elegant deodis and genteel manners has shrunk.. because it was built on the foundations of repressive feudal equations. the people have rejected the mores of old hyderabad but have retained the spirit of easy bonhomie and the language and other positive cultural legacies. the local biryani, is one such happy result of the mixing of the cultures of the hindus and muslims – the muslims brought in the idea and the local hindus spiced it up! so it’s mostly an answer to the needs of local palates. i’ve heard reactions to yours and sharique’s, from visiting north indians..but i guess, i’d find the lucknawi variety of biryani bland!
sharique,
i do agree with you that there are now great differences between the old city and the new cyberabad. some of the changes are ugly – but i find your comment that hyderabad is a ‘large patna’ very satisfying, actually. because i don’t want hyderabad to grow up into a delhi or a mumbai or a bangalore, and definitiely not a chennai. i want it to remain an indian city.
i’m sorry your experiences in the city were disappointing. i hope your next trip is more pleasant. very interesting post.
Sharique 10.23.06 at 1:57 am
Kuffir,
I am really surprised that you didn’t object to the comparison to Patna. But then it is slowly turning into a metropolitan…not quite comparable to Delhi but in few years i suppose it will.
Anant 10.31.06 at 9:22 pm
The superficial observations that are made, (superficial
adjective, being at, on, or near the surface) don’t lead
to any insight. If only the observer was to make deeper
observations where he or she did not strip the obeserved
of their humanity, that the observered are also human
beings who need cleanliness, decent living conditions,
employment, and the hope that the future will be better,
then one would be saying something else. How does it
matter whether or not a deprived neighbourhood is one
in which Muslims are the majority? These observations
may be easily construed as being patronizing or even
condescending.
MiM Youth Outfit Media 01.12.07 at 8:31 pm
THE HISTORY OF MAJLIS ITTEHADUL MUSLIMEEN PARTY IN HYDERABAD
The grip of the Majlis-e-ittehadul Muslimeen on the community remains strong, With a Member representing Hyderabad in the Lok Sabha, five members in the Andhra Pradesh Assembly, 40 corporators in Hyderabad and 95-plus members elected to various municipal bodies in Andhra Pradesh, the All-India Majlis-e-Ittehadul Muslimeen is one of the foremost representatives of the city’s Muslims and the most powerful Muslim party in India and one can see the partys strenghth if it goes to Hyderabad old city and Parts of Muslim Dominated Villages of Andhra Pradesh everywhere u look u can see MIM written on walls ,lightpoles and buildings leaving aside green flags and posters of its Leadership and there small Offices . The Majlis has brought lot of development to the Old part of the city even after it is said it hasnt done anything by its opponents who are mostly Ex Majlis workers.The Majlis was formed in 1927 “for educational and social uplift of Muslimsâ€?. But it articulated the position that “the ruler and throne (Nizam) are symbols of the political and cultural rights of the Muslim community… (and) this status must continue foreverâ€?.The Majlis pitted itself against the Andhra Mahasabha and the communists who questioned the feudal order that sustained the Nizam’s rule. It also bitterly opposed the Arya Samaj, which gave social and cultural expression to the aspirations of the urban Hindu population in the Hyderabad State of those days.By the mid-1940s, the Majlis had come to represent a remarkably aggressive and violent face of Muslim communal politics as it organised the razakars (volunteers) to defend the “independenceâ€? of this “Muslimâ€? State from merger with the Indian Union.According to historians, over 1,50,000 such `volunteers’ were organised by the Majlis for the Nizam State’s defence but they are remembered for unleashing unparalleled violence against Communal Hindus and the communists and all those who opposed the Nizam’s “go it aloneâ€? policy. It is estimated that during the height of the razakar `agitation’, over 30,000 people had taken shelter in the Secunderabad cantonment alone to protect themselves from these `volunteers’.But the razakars could do little against the Indian Army and even put up a fight. Kasim Rizvi, the Majlis leader, was imprisoned and the organisation banned in 1948. Rizvi was released in 1957 on the undertaking that he would leave for Pakistan in 48 hours. Before he left though, Rizvi met some of the erstwhile activists of the Majlis and passed on the presidentship to Abdul Wahed Owaisi, a famous lawyer and an Islamic scholar from jamia nizamia who also was jailed for nearly 10 months after he took over the Majlis leadership as the then govt wanted to abolish the Majlis party but Owaisi refused to do so and was seen as a person who had financially supported the party when it was a bankrupt and weak one after the Police Action in Hyderabad State.Owaisi is credited with having “re-writtenâ€? the Majlis constitution according to the provisions of the Indian Constitution and “the realities of Muslim minority in independent Indiaâ€?, and fought the legal case for winning back darrusslam mim headquarters for years according to a former journalist, Chander Srivastava. For the first decade-and-a-half after this “reinventionâ€?, the Majlis remained, at best, a marginal player in Hyderabad politics and even though every election saw a rise in its vote share, it could not win more than one Assembly seat.The 1970s saw an upswing in Majlis’ political fortunes. In 1969, it won back its party headquarters, Dar-us-Salaam — a sprawling 4.5-acre compound in the heart of the New City. It also won compensation which was used to set up an ITI on the premises and a women’s degree college in Nizamabad town. In 1976, Salahuddin Owaisi took over the presidentship of the Majlis after his father’s demise who also was also Jailed Various times .This started an important phase in the history of the Majlis as it continued expanding its educational institutions,Hospitals,Banks, including the first Muslim minority Engineering College and Medical College. Courses in MBA, MCA ,Nursing, Pharmacy and other professional degrees followed and now a daily newspaper known as Etemaad Daily. The 1970s were also a watershed in Majlis’ history as after a long period of 31 years, Hyderabad witnessed large-scale communal rioting in 1979. The Majlis came to the forefront in “defendingâ€? Muslim life and property Majlis workers could be seen at these moments defending the properties of Muslims in the wake of riots and these workers were very hard even for the police to control them even now it is a known fact that there are nearly about 2500 units of strong members who only act if there is a seirous threat to the Owaisi family and these members are under the direct orders of the Owaisi family which leads the Majlis party leaving aside thousands of workers and informers throughout the State and even outside the country far away till America and the Gulf countries.Salahuddin Owaisi, also known as “Salar-e-Millatâ€? (commander of the community), has repeatedly alleged in his speeches that the Indian state has “abandonedâ€? the Muslims to their fate. Therefore, “Muslims should stand on their own feet, rather than look to the State for help’’, he argues.This policy has been an unambiguous success in leveraging the Majlis today to its position of being practically the “sole spokesmanâ€? of the Muslims in Hyderabad and its environs.Voting figures show this clearly. From 58,000 votes in the 1962 Lok Sabha elections for the Hyderabad seat, Majlis votes rose to 1,12,000 in 1980. The clear articulation of this “stand on one’s feetâ€? policy in education and `protection’ during riots doubled its vote-share by 1984. Salahuddin Owaisi won the seat for the first time, polling 2.22 lakh votes. This vote-share doubled in the 1989 Lok Sabha elections to over four lakhs.The Majlis has since continued its hold on the Hyderabad seat winning about five-and-a-half lakh votes each time.Despite remarkable economic prosperity and negligible communal violence in the past decade, the hold of the Majlis on the Muslims of Hyderabad remains, despite minor dents. And despite widespread allegations of Majlis leaders having “made moneyâ€?, most ordinary Muslims continue to support them because, as one bank executive put it “they represent our issues clearly and unambiguously’’. An old Historian Bakhtiyar khan says the Owaisi family was a rich family even before entering Politics and he says he had seen the late Majlis leader Abdul Wahed Owaisi in an American Buick car at a time when rarely cars were seen on Hyderabad Roads and the family had strong relations with the ersthwhile Nizams of Hyderabad and the Paighs even now the family is considered to be one of the richest familes in Hyderabad.A university teacher says that the Majlis helped Muslims live with dignity and security at a time when they were under attack and even took the fear out of them after the Police action and adds that he has seen Majlis leaders in the front at times confronting with the Police and the Govt. Asaduddin Owaisi, the articulate UK educated barrister from Lincolns Inn College son of Salahuddin Owaisi and Former leader of the Majlis’ Legislature party and now an MP himself who has travelled across the globe meeting world leaders and organizatons and even in war zones compares the Majlis to the Black Power movement of America.The Majlis that emerged after 1957 is a completely different entity from its pre-independence edition, he says adding that comparisons with that bloody past are “misleading and mischievousâ€?. “That Majlis was fighting for state power, while we have no such ambitions or illusionsâ€?.He stoutly defends the need for “an independent political voiceâ€? for the minorities, which is willing to defend them and project their issues “firmlyâ€?.“How can an independent articulation of minority interests and aspirations be termed communal,â€? he asks and contests any definition of democracy which questions the loyalty of minorities if they assert their independent political identity. “We are a threat not only to the BJP and Hindu communalism, but also to Muslim extremism,â€? Asaduddin claims. “By providing a legitimate political vent for Muslims to voice their aspirations and fears, we are preventing the rise of political extremism and religious obscurantism when the community is under unprecedented attack from Hindu communalists and the state’’. He can be seen in his speeches speaking against terrorism in the Country and says if the time arises Majlis will stand side by side in defending the Nation and Recently Majlis ittehadul Muslimeen MP Asaduddin Owaisi has Visited Lebanon after the war with israel and met the leaders of the resistance group Hezbollah and he has even visited Bombay and Malegaon Muslims and raised there issues in Parliament and has even represented the police torture victims to the Prime Minister and has given aid From Majlis Ittehadul Muslimeen Party Fund.
Anonymous 01.22.07 at 3:47 am
well well well…Hyderabadi biryani and haleem a disappointment??!!? one must have a taste for it bro.
Nice post…and about the hostility part, I am sure Hyderabadis can be real nasty when they want to. Too bad it was a tryst with reality for you. Hope the next time u visit the city you meet ppl like me
And correction : aayinga not ‘aayega’
more correctly : Kya boltey tum miyaan….mazaa aayinga ….lekin hallu hallu
Sharique 01.22.07 at 1:16 pm
Anonymous,
I think I tasted the Haleem after the season was over but Biryani me woh baat nahi thi
You didn’t even leave your email address. How do I get in touch with you?
Thanks for the correction in Urdu
Muslimah 01.23.07 at 2:33 am
Sharique,
The next time you feel like having Hyderabadi haleem in Hyderabad, ask for Pista House’s. Thats my favourite. You’l like it inshaAllaah. But you wont get it all through the year. You will have to make it to the city in Ramadan.
Sharique 01.23.07 at 7:59 am
Sure will keep that in mind, inshAllah! I actually had the Haleem on the last day of Ramdhan so was served only haddis
Hopefully I will taste that delicacy in future
miabhai 05.17.08 at 1:56 pm
well well, I find your generalizations in one visit kind of biased. Poverty in general is rampant but not entirely in old city. As for the youth, every city has its own vibe, just deal with it or zip it. Hyderabadis kick ass and biryani/haleem is my favorite food.